SNAP OUT(: SNAP OUT of your "sorry" state.thts what i mean.
i just get into the mood of saying these things.it just got stucked in my mind all the time.its not stuck actually,its just that ive been thinking about this lately,and i just cannot stop thinking abt it.till i decided to put it and trash it all down heree.can i?
heres the thing,its something about the "sorry" thing.i understand tht most of us do say sorry.some people say it like A LOT every day.yes its very important to say sorry when we have done such mistakes and those wrongdo but wht i actually trying to say here is when you apologise too much.for every human being out there,are you apologising for everything?
even when you get a compliment for something,your immediate reaction is to put it down? well i think we all just need to treat ourselves to a self-image makeover.yesss =.=
one question.do you cringe when someone pays you a compliment and feel that its undeserved? perhaps "sorry" is the word you use most frequently,whether you're at home or school.
well me too! for most of us, i just think that the urge to be self-deprecating is a powerful one.yupp =),and while theres nothing wrong with being such modest,youre on dangerous ground if you find yourself constantly apologising for NO GOOD reason or NEVER saying what you truly think.FOR me, its like you just put yourself into something that is always have to blame on.everything.almost everything.it will soon keep your self-esteem at the lowest level,dudee
besides it is quite possible to switch your thinking from "im rubbish" to "im worth it"-its all about back on the self reflex.think abt it =D hhmmmmm.
okayyy to make it clear.lemme give you a situation ; its when you need to discuss an issue with your friend at school,but the first word you say is "sorry".next,lets say if someone bumps into you on a street and you are the one who apologise.you know,sometimes it feels like you're just sorry for your existing,mannn.think abt it
the problem is,if you open a sentence with the word sorry,to me i think it automatically devalues what you say afterwards .you are actually putting yourself down when you say sorry!
okay(: some of you may think like youre being polite ; see,there's nothing wrong with good manners, but theres a big difference between being muchh polite ad apologising for your own existence =.=
its time to think before you speak.do you want to come across as nervous Plain Jane and unconfident? NO,yeah i heard you(:
haihhhhhh i think i just wrote too much.bad habit.huhhhhhh
on the other hand, i wanna add some ; confident body language also represents and automatically indicates that you have something valid to say ryteeeee , so be it.
thats all.dudeeee,remember, theres always a big difference between being polite and apologising for your own existence.thanks for reading my babblings or i call it more like crapping.huhhh.just to confess(:
even when you get a compliment for something,your immediate reaction is to put it down? well i think we all just need to treat ourselves to a self-image makeover.yesss =.=
one question.do you cringe when someone pays you a compliment and feel that its undeserved? perhaps "sorry" is the word you use most frequently,whether you're at home or school.
well me too! for most of us, i just think that the urge to be self-deprecating is a powerful one.yupp =),and while theres nothing wrong with being such modest,youre on dangerous ground if you find yourself constantly apologising for NO GOOD reason or NEVER saying what you truly think.FOR me, its like you just put yourself into something that is always have to blame on.everything.almost everything.it will soon keep your self-esteem at the lowest level,dudee
besides it is quite possible to switch your thinking from "im rubbish" to "im worth it"-its all about back on the self reflex.think abt it =D hhmmmmm.
okayyy to make it clear.lemme give you a situation ; its when you need to discuss an issue with your friend at school,but the first word you say is "sorry".next,lets say if someone bumps into you on a street and you are the one who apologise.you know,sometimes it feels like you're just sorry for your existing,mannn.think abt it
the problem is,if you open a sentence with the word sorry,to me i think it automatically devalues what you say afterwards .you are actually putting yourself down when you say sorry!
okay(: some of you may think like youre being polite ; see,there's nothing wrong with good manners, but theres a big difference between being muchh polite ad apologising for your own existence =.=
its time to think before you speak.do you want to come across as nervous Plain Jane and unconfident? NO,yeah i heard you(:
haihhhhhh i think i just wrote too much.bad habit.huhhhhhh
on the other hand, i wanna add some ; confident body language also represents and automatically indicates that you have something valid to say ryteeeee , so be it.
thats all.dudeeee,remember, theres always a big difference between being polite and apologising for your own existence.thanks for reading my babblings or i call it more like crapping.huhhh.just to confess(:
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